Ian and I were friends 5-8th grade. I will always remember his great artistry even as a pre teen. I have great memories of our EVC comics that we created in 5th grade. We spent a lot of time wandering around town and having fun. Some of those years were the best years of my life and Ian was a big part of it. I'm sorry for this tragedy.

Paul

My condolences to your family. I spent many days as a young kid in Brielle playing with Ian as a kid on Borrie Ave. He was a good friend and although we moved away I suspect we’d have caught up eventually right where we left off.

Hello Lynne, this is Ellie from Brielle over thirty years ago. My son Donnie just let me know of your loss of Ian. They were partners in crime before kindergarten. You and I spent those days together at your house around the block from me. I am so sad to hear of your loss. Donnie was told tonight by Jimmy Kane. He let me know right away. My heart hurts for you and your family. I hope you can find peace at some time.

This makes me both incredibly sad and opens a floodgate of memories. I remember playing with Ian around Green Acres park in Brielle as kids. I was sad the day he moved away. I think we were in 3rd grade then.

Dear Lynne and family, I’m sure there are no words to console you at this terrible time. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers . I can not even imagine what you are going through. May the Lord give you the strength to get through this .

Grieving with you and family. There are no words, but there is a lot of love and sympathy flowing toward you.

Lynne,

We are just so very sorry....really there are no words. Seeing pictures and reading about Ian, it's so obvious that he was such a gentle soul....kindest eyes....and sweet spirit. No words....nothing can take away the heartache. The ONLY one that can comfort you and the family is Christ and i just pray so hard that His arms cover you.....just completely surrounding you and holding you oh so tight. Heaven gained a very precious man! How thankful that one day, we will get to meet Ian and spend eternity together! I can't even imagine what his view is this day.....when that sun sets tonight, i will try and imagine his view from the other side. Nothing can compare to his home now.....nothing at all. He's face to face with our Savior....he's home.

Please know we are praying so hard for you and for the family. Love you guys.

Lynn and Family,

I am so sorry for your loss. You were most fortunate to have him in your life for so long and have a loving relationship.

I unfortunately have one son who does not have anything to do with me...…………...Please look on the bright side in your time of loss.

Prayers, Pam

I look at recent pictures of my nephew Ian. He was young. He was full of life. He was raised lovingly by his parents Lynne and George Berghoff. He was close to his brothers and to his sister. He had many friends. He loved his daughter Abigail. She is a gift.

He was a very bright child and showed potential in many areas. He was a true artist in many ways. He had a unique personality. Later on as an adult his life became more difficult. He had disabilities.

Ian I love you. You were unique in the way you reasoned things out but always clever

and logical. God bless you. We will all miss you.

Robin

Dear Lynnne and family,

We are so sorry to hear your sad news about Ian. You are all in our thoughts and prayers at this difficult time.

Anne & Jem

Lynne & Family,

Sorry to hear of this tragedy. Praying for the Lord's peace and comfort for you all. Many Blessings.

We are so sorry for your loss. May good memories fill the huge hole in your heart.

So sadden to hear the news of Ian's passing. I have pleasant memories of him. He was talented, funny and kind. God bless

There are no words at all for this sorrow. We are grieving with you, dear friends. We’re sending our deepest sympathy and love. We pray that you are comforted knowing that Ian is resting in the arms of God and the promise of someday. Love, Norah and John

So sad to lose this talented and loving good man. God bless you all, and comfort you in your grief.

Your cousin

God speed my friend. You will be greatly missed. Till next time..

My deepest sympathy goes out to you all; I am grieving with you. Ian will be sorely missed. You never remember how much you love someone until they are gone. Rest in peace, Ian. All my love to the Berghoff/Bagnell family members.

So very sorry for your loss. He was taken way too young. I can’t imagine your pain. Take comfort in knowing Ian is resting in the arms of our Lord. You will be together again some day.

So heartbreaking to lose a child. I am so sorry Lynne and family. May your faith stay strong and see you through this terrible loss.

I will miss you my friend. It's hard to fathom that you're gone. RIP. We will one day meet again.

Rest in Peace Ian, it's so terrible to lose one so young.

My deepest sympathies to all of you. As Billy Joel said "only the good die young".

We are heartbroken, Ian, and love you so much. Mom

So sorry to hear of your passing. Glad I got to meet you. Rest In Peace.