I grew up with Ralph.He was a very close Brother umong a small group of core people who covered each other no matter what. He was an honorable, trustworthy one of a kind Brother, friend. His and other core members when they passed left a big hole within that can never be filled 100%. He and the others are a rare breed, but we always knew if one of us needed the other....everything was dropped and help was on the way. No questions asked. Yes Ralph was the originator of the idea of the 'LOOSE GOOSE', MYSELF AND A COUPLE OTHERS CREATED AND BUILT THAT SMALL BROTHERHOOD FROM THE CORE!!

GOOD BYE MY BROTHER, I celebrate your life .

I brought up a few things just to give an idea of how he affected others. I am the only one left alive from the original core. Why I have no idea!! Now in my mid sixties I constantly find myself ready to look for my brothers,...but I am alone,, our new breed in many ways can't grasp the ideals and code we lived by. That doesn't mean they are no good,, only different in ways I can't relate to deep inside.

Time for me to say good bye my brother, ill see you and the others soon enough. We had a good full life, can't complain...so many good brothers gone too soon, but I am a better person growing up , even living with each other's families, all of us. Thanks Brother you help others w/o question, and could see ya coming from far away , no one. Could mistake that stash. His dog was also named 'Ralphy' and wore a bandana also. Hope he too is with You!

LATER......my good friend...!

MFS

Ralph, It's been a very long time since we've seen you, but the great memories we shared back in the 70's were unforgettable. Your sense of humor, and caring for so many other people is what sticks most in our minds. Rest in Peace, and if we know you, you'll be on that motor cycle in the sky, partying with "the gang". Fondest Memories & Condolences, Paula & Lynda

Dear Linda and Family, I'm sure you know how much we all loved Ralph and are so sorry for your loss. I hope you can take strength in knowing that he is at peace in paradise. He was a wonderful man and we are all fortunate to have had him in our lives. We are praying for you. Love, all the dialysis nurses at JSUMC

Although Jet and I were only together on a few occasions, my son and I were always made to feel welcome by him. We will miss him on the upcoming rides for sure. My sincere sympathy to his wife, children and grandchildren. May he forever enjoy his pain free ride thru the gates of heaven.

The Dash The following is a poem by Linda Ellis © 1998. Consider the implications for your own life's choices I read of a man who stood to speak at the funeral of a friend He referred to the dates on her tombstone from the beginning to the end. He noted that first came the date of her birth and spoke of the following date with tears, But he said what mattered most of all was the dash between those years. For that dash represents all the time that she spent alive on earth... And now only those who loved her know what that little line is worth. For it matters not, how much we own; the cars .... the house... the cash. What matters is how we live and love and how we spend our dash. So think about this long and hard ... are there things you'd like to change? For you never know how much time is left. (You could be at "dash mid-range") If we could just slow down enough to consider what's true and real, And always try to understand the way other people feel. And be less quick to anger, and show appreciation more, And love the people in our lives like we've never loved before. If we treat each other with respect and more often wear a smile... Remembering that this special dash might only last a little while. So, when your eulogy's being read with your life's actions to rehash... Would you be proud of the things they say about how you spend your dash??

To Linda and Family, I am so sorry for your loss. Jet was so loved by all. He will be deeply missed. I am sorry that I can not be there, but my thoughts and prayers are with all of you. With Deepest Sympathy Dana Manuel